The Low Down On F*ck Buddies

The Low Down On F*ck Buddies

Until we create space for someone to come in to our world, they can’t come in.

If that space is already half filled, we can only let someone half in. And they will sense it.

F*ck Buddies allow us to be half in/half out.

Saying we will stop sleeping with someone when we are sure the person we are dating is the one, is having your cake and eating it too.

The problem being that when we genuinely want someone to come in to our world as a life partner, but our actions state that we are only half serious, we are not creating space for that person to enter.

If you really want a life partner, make room for them.

Get rid of your back up plans, f*ck buddies and ‘flirty friends’.

Learn to make yourself feel good about your self and your life, and don’t rely on others to feed your ego.

So many people just terrified of getting hurt again, and if you want to be the one that attracts someone for a life partner, you need them to see that the space they are entering is safe.

Not fighting off the ‘extras’ until they create that space for themselves — most people will walk away if they have to do this. You would too.

Be the person who has finished with the past, knows what they want and has made room for it to happen — now that’s sexy.


Sharon Kimber is a Dating & Self Love Coach. As the founder of Soul Dating, Sharon specialises in authentic dating and self love coaching for single people looking to truly connect with their life partner. She believes that by removing the masks we learn to wear, learning to love ourselves, knowing our needs and utilising empowered dating skills, we hold the keys to finding a relationship that will truly make us happy, meet our needs, and endure. Sharon is a certified Life Coach, Dating & Singles Coach, & Holistic Events Coordinator. If you are interested in working with Sharon, schedule your complimentary discovery call by calling 0417 601 299 or visiting the website -

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